
- An interesting phenomenon took place and it has been on my mind ever since. This man was asking for my number; but he did not want me to give him mine. Instead he took out a piece of paper and wants to write his down. But I think no, let me write mine. I proceed to do so- we all know the best way to judge people’ s interest is by letting them call you and not you calling them.
Anyway, he was ticked off because he did not want to have to call me but I call him instead. Was wondering about this insistence until I remembered one thing. When a woman writes down a phone number who normally finds it in the pocket? The wife. The man had a wife; needless to say I did not call. He never did and that was the end of that.
He will go to the shower with his phone
We know it is not waterproof and we know that there is no one going to call him while he is the shower. If your man gets a heart attack when you go near his phone or will literally break down a door if you play around and go hide with it; then that one is hiding something.
He takes his calls in hiding
This was not something that happened before and you notice there are calls he takes while you are there and there are the ones he has to go to another room. He also has to look out to see if you are listening in. If it is a bedsitter and it is raining outside but your man would rather get pneumonia than take a particular call, what is he hiding?
His friend just got caught
I am not saying that he is also doing it but…birds of a feather flock together. If he spends all his weekends with this guy, they drink together and then the friend happens to be having some fun with some woman who is not his wife. Your man never tells you but you hear about it. Your man is good if he comes and tells you as a secret to keep. But if he is part of the hiding; then he also needs them to hide his shenanigans as well.
More overnight trips
I am not one to encourage a woman to not give her man space or let him have that once in a bit fun. Your man is good if at times he invites you to some not with the boys but just the two of you but when they become more and more and he does not want you to know the plans and will not say who they are with. He also has to think long and hard before you get an answer- that might be troubling.
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